Miracles come to those who need it the most. A few weeks ago I received two calls that I can’t describe. The first call came on a Sunday afternoon asking me to move out of a house I was staying in because a potential client was moving in the following day. The second call came on a Monday evening telling me to travel out of town for a job opportunity. Talk about timing.
Back story. When I left my job In May 2022, I basically lost everything. An income, a roof over my head and the love of my life. Please note that she didn’t leave because I had no income. She left because I hurt her. Just clarifying. Moving on. I spent a few months at a friend’s house in Silverest Gardens. While sending application letters to every company that I felt suited for, I tried my hand at Yango to keep an income stream going. Yango is a version of Uber or Bolt owned by Yandex, a company currently owned by Ridetech. The experience was great. I got to meet lots of interesting people. Some days were good. Others were hell. But that’s customer service in a nutshell. I stopped because it wasn’t working for me. I was basically working to raise cash in for the car owner so I stopped. In November 2022, my friend got a job in another area so I had to move. I had nowhere to go. I spent a few nights at a lodge in Chamba Valley of Lusaka working odd jobs just to raise room and abode paying approximately 8 USD a night and sometimes going without food. While chatting with a friend one day, he proposed I move to his vacant house in Ibex Hill. Ibex Hill is one of those suburbs where prominent people live. On my road, my neighbor was Dora Siliya, a former member of parliament for Petauke and former minister of Information under the Patriotic Front government in Zambia.
So I moved in under the condition that I’d move immediately a tenant was found. It took long to find one, to my advantage. Anyway, a few days before being asked to move, I got in touch with a friend about tagging along to his speaking and training events just so I could at least gain first hand experience on corporate training and team building. He agreed. Mainly because he credits me for being one of the reasons he went into that type of business after one of the training sessions he attended that I facilitated at our former workplace. It was fun. He’d ask me to speak and chip in but it was clear I was suffering from Imposter Syndrome. He understood and was very supportive and encouraging. I appreciate it. Sidenote: watching him in front of those people facilitating was such an experience. He truly is a master of his craft. The confidence. The articulation. The knowledge. An exceptional speaker.
Friday we facilitate a team building and management training for microfin at Mika Convention Center in Waterfalls area of Chongwe Town. We have fun. We make arrangements to meet on Monday so that we see how they can fuse me into their work environment as a subcontractor. Mind you I’m still suffering from imposter syndrome so I’m not being tapped in to work solo at this point but at least it’s a positive discussion. Sunday afternoon, that call comes. Now I’m making mental arrangements on where I’m going to take the little furniture I have left. Not particularly worried about where I’ll sleep because I always make a plan. Monday evening I receive that call asking me to move. I have to be there by lunch. I’m broke. I need bus fare. I need lodge money. What do I do? But God yea?
I make it slightly after lunch and sign my contract two days later. In all this I’m just laughing because…God and his timing right? I don’t even know how to thank God for this gift that came at a time when I desperately needed it. I’ll be honest enough to say I had concerns about moving here due to personal reasons but…i needed this new start. Not just for me but for my kids as well. So every personal thing that was asking me to reject it was inconsequential. Unimportant. It’s not about me at this point. Only a fool says “No” to God. I know I’m starting from the very bottom. The difference this time is that I know better. I thank God for his timing. God’s timing leads to the right alignment. God’s plan indeed. We build from here.
What did I learn? God is real. God is great. God is faithful. God is dependable. I learnt that no situation is permanent. When you reach the very bottom, keep your head and trust that you shall overcome. There really is light at the end of the tunnel. It’s always important to have something worth living for. Something worth fighting for. Worth holding on to. I owe my kids a better life. I owe my father a success story. I owe my future partner a better life and great partner.